I'm worried she's falling out of love with me
I have no idea what to expect from posting this but I'm not sure who to turn to at this point. Anyway, here's our story. My wife of 13 years has seemingly fallen out of love with me. We have always had a strong relationship with great communication but in the last few months its pretty clear that she isn't in love with me like she used to be. We have a full life with kids, jobs, a place at the lake and lots of supportive family. She says she's confused, needs space but claims to still love me. There's been a bunch of stress lately with her Dad, one of our daughters, her own clinical depression and life in general. I'm not sure if all these factors have put her in a bad place or whether our relationship is the core issue. All I know is that we have too much to lose and she's the person I want to be with for the rest of my life. I love her more today than the day I married her. What do I do? Any advice would be sincerely appreciated. Confused husband in SK.
I think it would be a good idea to ask her point blank if she is still in love with you. If she says yes then you're alright. If she says no, remember one thing: do what is best for your children! It's not fair to make their life complicated/miserable! Good luck!
Thanks for the response LL555. I left for the weekend to give her some space and asked her that question today. She said she does but says she doesn't know what she's thinking anymore. Not sure what that means but I'll sit down with her when I get home.