I have several guy friends as i am more comfortable with the opposite gender. There is this particular male friend (B) that i have known for several years now.
I am quite the chatter online on social websites like whatsapp and i mostly chat with these two friends of mine (A and B).
However, A is really disturbed by the fact that i chat with other male friends of mine, especially B. He expressed that he feels i am getting too overly close with B and do not feel that B and i are just friends. He also mentioned that he feels very hurt whenever i spend time online with B instead of him.
However, i feel that i do spend alot more of my time with A rather than B (i spend about 1 or 2 hours every weekday and some of my weekend, the rest of my time is mostly spent with A). But A insists that i try to cut down my time with B because it hurts him.
I have refused to do that as i do not see the need to do that as i feel that i do no feel that i am doing anything wrong and my time with B is limited. But i do not want A to be hurt any further, or any more of my desperate attempts to express my thoughts or come up with solutions.
Is there anything that i can do or is there any way i could express this to him ? We have had many talks about this and both of us has refused to give in. I need help.
A was my classmate until a few months ago (we graduated) and i met B online and i have been gaming online with him for several years now.
Im sorry, but i don't quite understand what you are saying, i am assuming that you asked what do i think will happen if A and B met. If A and B were to meet and interact i do not think any good will come out of it as A may blurt out hurtful words to B.
To get it clear, A and B do not know each other in person, but they do know about each other's existence. I have not brought up this matter to B (or maybe i should?). B does not feel very affected by A, however.
Both A and B are my dear friends and i do not think i bear any romantic feelings for either of them if that is what you are asking.
Thank you for all of your replies, i sincerely appreciate it
So there you have it. Either be A's or let him go - and game away with B, C, D or whomever.
A wants a real, in-person relationship. Are you ready for that?
A and i are currently friends at the moment. I don't really feel ready for a relationship with A because recently because of this problem we have, many sides of him that i have not seen before is surfacing and i realised i don't really know him as well as i thought. Im really unsure if he's someone i want to be with.
I really wish to stay friends with both of them, i really treasure my friendships with them.
As usual, thanks for you reply
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