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Relationship advice I'm an 18 year old girl, this guy in his 30s keeps talking to me, he's kinda awkward. The other day we were talking (we work together btw) and I made a joke about sleeping in the same bed as him but he seemed to take it seriously- he said "I like younger women, be warned" WTF does he mean??? I am very confused...

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relax, he is just flirting with you. men his age often regards flirting with young women a "minimal courtesy" that they must show.
why are you worried? do u have hots for him? xD

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You have to ask yourself what's up with a bloke if despite there being millions of women his own age or thereabouts out there, he'd want to pursue someone a whole 12 years his junior and, in this case, only 2 years out of childhood and above the legal age of consent, meaning in reality the age gap is even wider than the technical figure would suggest. In my experience it's usually because - emotionally at least - secretly *he's* at least 12 years his junior. Either that or the bloke thinks being so much younger is going to mean her being gullible, easy to impress, and even easier when it comes to pulling the wool over her eyes or even gaining the permanent upper hand. And the worst case scenario is, he's trying to get around his paedophiliac tendencies with the next best thing (brr!).

Kind of awkward, notes even you, a (no offence) 18 year old who still regards herself a girl rather than woman. That would explain and support a lot, then.

Also, what's he doing flirting during working hours with a colleague? Not very self-disciplined, career orientated or professional for his late age, is he?

Sorry, but I don't think *I'd* be relaxing.

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Hippie - best not to make sexual jokes with an "awkward" 30 year old guy.

Keep this relationship work-like.

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