My bf broke up with me 4 days before Xmas. What do I do w/his familys gifts?
Here is some background: So my boyfriend of over two years and I have had some problems with his infidelities in the past, and I have always forgiven him. A few days ago he went through my phone and found a vague text message about me talking to my ex-boyfriend. He thinks I cheated and that (apparently?) it's an unforgivable offense. Especially odd considering his multiple affairs. Anyway, he's refusing his gifts and I am done speaking with him, but I also have very awesome and very specific gifts for his family that they deserve to receive. (A lot of them were items that were requested by the giftee and it was communicated with other gifters not to get that item for each giftee, because I was the one who already purchased it.) I am close with his family, but they will obviously 'side' with him regardless. Which I understand. I am crushed about the whole situation, but the question is this: do I contact his parents or his brother or his brother's girlfriend to arrange a way for me to deliver the gifts to them so that they may give them to each appropriate person? Or do I respect his childish wishes and punish the family because of his anger toward me?
I'm sure they will understand the situation. No need to worry about gifts at a time like this.
Wait a few days and let the dust settle. You can always deliver them later.
In the meantime, be glad you are rid of a two-timer who has a double standard.
What did you wind up doing?