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Okay... I've considered myself bi for a while now, even though I've never actually liked any guys. Mainly because when i tried to come out to my mom the word bisexual sounded better than lesbian. But that's not the issue! My problem is that my best guy friend asked me out a few months ago and i told him yes- why not give it a shot right? And i thought i was startin to like him until on Christmas Eve i was at his house and he kissed me ((my first kiss)) and i thought it gross. I played it off as a 'oh it was just awkward since it was my first' and convinced myself it didn't mean anything. I told him i wanted to take things slow so that we wouldn't have to kiss again for a little bit at least. Then, we went to see Sherlock Holmes in theaters and he didn't care about the movie; he just wanted to make out. Again it was gross but i really didn't want to hurt his feelings so i just tried to stop him politely. Now, i don't know what i should do- i'm not sure whether i actually like him or not. I know the obvious answer is that i probably don't like him and should break up with him rather than lead him on but i really care about him and don't want to give up on it... Advice?

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It's me again. And i wanted to clarify that i'm worried that the reason i don't like kissing him is cause i'm actually lesbian... Plus, i like one of ny female friends and she likes me back so i'm trying to figure out what i want to do... i'm just f***ing confused and i need help. (by the way i'm a 13 year old girl so i'm using teenager logic here.) Please someone reply. I really need help, you guys. Thank you, Sam (MattAndMello)

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you are so young only 13, enjoy your life, be honest to your guy friend, he deserves to know who you like may it be girls/ boys. Or you will end up loosing him as a friend atleast. If you think ure confused just give it some time and weigh yourself. take it slow whats the rush? the important thing is to be honest i tell you the worst thing is being lied too.

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Thanks for your reply Maricel. But being 13 isn't what it probably used to be. (The majority of people my age aren't even virgins anymore.) And my he already knows that i'm bi at least and he's been behind me since i told him, if i lost him as a friend i don't know what i would do. Also, i've known i like girls for a while now and i've been trying to 'weigh myself' since then and i still haven't figured it out... Oh! And today he freakin said he loved me. I don't know what i should say to him if i were going to talk to him... Thanks again for the reply- support of any kind helps... Sam (MattAndMello)

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Well it doesn't matter anymore. He dumped me for my ex girlfriend. FML

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