Hi, I am 19 years old girl, my native language is not english so..., i am in relaship with a 60 years old man, you think now i am doing the wrong thing and I should break this relationship, but wait I have fallen in love so deeply, I became addicted to him, cannot live without him, yes if left him I will die and as well as he will,all started when i was 16 years old i was a very clever smart girl i registered in a site for learning languages, i wanted to improve my english, so after a while i descovered on the site that i can chat with people whose native language is english, so it was so interresting, i was dreaming to becomene a pilote so i met a man on that site he was working in aviation, he was so kind, we would chat long hours about aviation my culture his culture, it was such an interresting chating, then he gave me his email, then we started sending emails, he was helping me with english and give me informations about aviation for my study projects, so we stayed in contact for 4 years and we got more and more involved with each other, we never talked about love or sex in the first 2 years, and never tried to show me his feelings, but i was falling in love with him more and more but couldnt tell him too, on my 18th birthday he sent me flowers and chocolate, i was amazed and after a week i couldnt hide my feelings towards him, i told him i love you, he got so happy but at the same time he said he doesnt want to hurt me because he is much oldee than me, he wants me to achieve my dreams and he will be always by my side to help me, and he then showed me how much he loves me, then we started sharing our stories, he is married and have two sons one is 24 and other is 28, his wife started believing in a diffrent religion and started hating him, and wanting to sell the house so she can live alone, she yells at him all time,but he never did bad to her, he was helping her a lot,i knew how hard his life is to live with a non caring wife, so we decided to change our life, i thought bwe should meet in real to see how we go with each other, i invited him to my country this year, i went to airport to meet him, so he huged me tight there and was smiling and happy and so was i, was so happy to meet my true love, he holded my hand in the car and we went to hotel, he asked me how he looks in real, he was tall and slim, he has a perfect body even if he is 60 he had the body of a 48 years old man, i was amazed i told him how handsome he was, and we had our first kiss, he didnt touch me in the first 4 days even if we were sleeping with each other, we would just talk and laugh and enjoying the day out being his guide, i showed him the places and traditional things we really had lots of fun, but on the 5th day as we came back to hotel, i wanted to show him how much i loved him, we huged each other and kissed for a long time, we got hot for each other, we got naked, his body was so perfect, i was virgin, i told him i was, and as i see that cant live without each other, we decided to get married after his divorce, he broke my hymen, but couldnt have propre sex because i was tight, we spent time cuddling and kissing, after about one week, he entered me, and we started having sex everyday twice. I am now so attached to him and so he is, we talk everyday since he went back to his home country, he is divorcing now and moved from his house and bought a new house for us, now we are planing after divorce to come again and marry me, so i can get a visa and then travel with him to our new house there, he is ready to,pay for my engineering courses so i can work in aviation just like him, he cares for me a lots and wd cannot live without each other never ever ever, we are so addicted to each other. Please i want to know your opinion about my situation, thanks
It sounds like you have made up your mind about this, anyway. You seem to be in love with each other. But he is not divorced, yet, so take things slow.
Prepare for issues with his children. They will be shocked and angry.
Also, be sure that there are financial protections for you - life insurance on him and provisions about the house, if he should not be there in future years.
What does YOUR family say about all this?
Look.You are 19yrs old and he is 60yrs old.You don't seem to realize how wrong this is.On top of that he's married too?! Even if he was 100% single..I would be saying the SAME thing.He's taking advantage of you.There really is something wrong with a person who is in their 60's dating someone so young...there really is..even if that person treats you with the utmost respect...there really is something wrong with it.When you become older...you will see what I mean by this.It is not right!
This can work but only if he is fully divorced and not just saying he is doing it. There are many love - relationships in the world like this, but be careful, double check and be sure. Good luck