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Well here is the problem... I am very attracted to someone i work with. He has a partner, however he keeps openly flirting with me, and he is anyway a very flirty person, so i thought it was just general flirting and nothing serious between us. Until one night when he openly admitted he is attracted to me, followed by a kiss. I am not sure whether this is just general flirting or whether it is more than that. Any advice would be much appreciated. Thanks

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Just think of it like this. He now cheated on his partner to kiss you. is that the type of guy you want. If he will find a reason to justify doing it to her he will or could to you behind your back. I would def not be attracted to someone like that me personally. Doesn't matter what he says. Stay away from him! The work place is very easy for people to become attracted to each other from the bond of seeing each other a lot.

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Don't you mean problem-ZUH? 1. He's a work colleague: picture what daily work will be like if you two splat and, god forbid, the splat is nasty. 2. Is he your work superior? That dynamic will get carried now and forevermore into your relationship, meaning he'll be "der boss" and you the underling. 3. The biggie: HE'S TAKEN! What are you hoping? That by possibly ousting her out of her shoes and taking them over you'll one day be in the same situation she's (for now) unwittingly in right now, today? Or, worse, to be his free-of-charge, part-time prostitute paid only with empty flattery? Wouldn't donning a hair shirt be faster and easier? 4. What's *your* problem that all these things either appeal or don't put you off?

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Crossover and "Snap!" with Jasmine!

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