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Not sure if I want a relationship...

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Ok so Ive been casually seeing this guy for a while, we've had sex before, I'm 18 and he's 21, we've both admitted we like each other. I think he wants a relationship but the problem is that he has a child. I've just never seen myself in a relationship with someone who has a child, it just makes me uncomfortable. When he told me he had a child I got upset and deleted his number and never saw him. Unfortunately he lives really close to me so we bumped into each other, and he asked me why I haven't spoken to him, I kind of avoided the question and he asked me if he could text me ( he kept my number, which is weird considering we stopped talking & I deleted his number) I really like him but Im wary about getting into a relationship.

Not sure if I want a relationship...

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It's not like you don't want a relationship...it's just that you don't want a relationship with someone who has a kid and you're perfectly right in how you feel about that.You need to just address that to him because you state that it makes you feel uncomfortable.Anything that makes you feel uncomfortable...you shouldn't feel the need to be forced into it.You know that obviously if you say you want a relationship with this guy...you would have to meet his kid. That would be very uncomfortable for you.You need to gently tell him how you feel and just stay friends if possible.If he's a good guy..he will understand.Good luck.

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