Im torn between two guys
Hi, I really need some advice without judgement. Im 16 years old and the boy I am seeing currently is 18. We have been through a lot. We were both the kinds of people that were lost and didn't know love. We found each other and it was great. About two months ago, he slept with someone else (we have not slept together.) It broke me. A week after that, his older brother kissed me. I figured we both just got emotional because we had both just gotten out of relationships. Anyways, I told my love that this happened but somehow we moved passed our problems and are back on track now. A few days ago, his brother told me he didn't regret kissing me and has feelings for me. Im scared I have feelings for him. Im in love with my boy so much, but I'm scared I love his brother too. I need help.
Maybe an unusual suggestion but I suggest you ask for a little 'me time to immerse yourself in work or school work and then see how you genuinely miss. Your heart will show you. Just ensure that you make sure that you help your boyfriend to trust you while you are absent. Absence makes the heart grow fonder anyhow
When torn between two people always go with the second one because if you really loved the first one there wouldn't be a second one.