Too much drinking
I have been married for almost five years now, my husband never stops drinking on week-ends, he is never around and laways comes home drunk. I have discussed this, fought with him to the point I ended up crying. Maybe the problem is I just do not know how to discuss this with him. I tried letting him know that his drinking on weekends really affects me because I just cant have a deceant conversation with him when he is like that but my words are just ignored. I cant even kiss him when he is drunk, he comes home around 23hrs to midnight and still doesnt see that as wrong. I must not tell him what to do, what time he must come home and I must not even choose his friends. I feel as if I am alone in this marriage, whatever I try discussing with his is either I am on PMS or he would walk out on me without listerning to what I am trying to say. I am desperately confussed because the next day he will pretend as if nothing happened the previous night and move on. What am I supposed to do in this kind os situation. Please help.
It's very difficult to communicate with an alcoholic. There is Alanon, which you might find helpful, though it doesn't suit everyone. Also, you could get a piece of amythist and put it under his pillow. You need to wash it each day for a few minutes under running cold water, and to tell it that you want it to stop your husband drinking.
he didnt ignore you because he was drunk and you must understand that people in this situation dont understand what they are doing,in my opinion there are two solutions to this problem,the first one is medical help and the second one you must tell him that you will leave him if this is going to be continued.