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What should I do with my husband?

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Relationship advice My husband and I r both working.
We split are basic monthly bill but if there is any extra expenses I always have to pay.
Hi couldent iven pay for rein doctor visit or meds the other day.
Obviasly I did have money for emergency cause I know I can't relay on him for nothing.
When I got home I had to ® plane to him that it's is son to and it's only right that I would give something to words expenses.
If I say nothig id be more then happy to just avoid paying. It's the same with must thing. His idea to provide for his family is buying 4 cans of beans and yoghurt he sees on offer at the store. but Fellinig up thé thank With home heating oil can be left to me to purchase. Hi has an expensive hobby. He keeps 13 horses at his dad's house. And he never had to buy a carl in all his life cause he uses mine that I paid for yard and insure my self or his dad's. He never pays for anything and I'm sick of it. I work 12 hrs a day and when is at home he does nothing with the excuse that he has to watch r son age 4. After a long days work I have to coock clean and he did nothing all day.

What should I do with my husband?

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"We split are basic monthly bill but if there is any extra expenses I always have to pay."

He's financially exploiting you, using you to fund a lifestyle that he can't alone afford. But what do you mean 'have to'? Does he hold a gun to your head?

Has it never occurred to you to put your foot down? Or are you constantly waiting to see if he'll suddenly wake up 'tomorrow' and - abaracadabara! - see the error of and change his ways? If he could even sleep at night knowing that he's got the SIGNIFICANTLY better deal in this relationship then I doubt that's likely. Don't you?

So what are you going to do about this massive injustice?

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