Can someone help with my relationship please???
Ok I need help on my relationship... I am in a relationship with a girl. Obviously. We used to be so happy like seriously so happy and I miss those days so so so much. Now we're always depressed and sad and cry all the time. And now she doesn't ever want to talk about any of it which sucks so much since I don't know what to think. She recently told me that she was planning on cutting. Because of me and I just can't live knowing that so she said she won't tell me. And now I think our relationship is build mostly on lies. And now for the hardest part she lives 500 miles away. I plan on moving down to her when I can... If we can even make it that far.
Please someone help me. Tell me how to fix this tell me how I can get her to talk with me. I am new to this website so I don't know much about it but if you can please talk to me. I can give you my KIK but I need to talk to someone. Thank you for reading though. I mostly just have to get this off my chest but I have no one else to help me. It's just me and the girl I love. Anyone want to help me?
to start with she cant blame all problems on you sometimes it is just a way for her to get thinks off her chest. the distance is always hard but if you are truly in love it wont matter. there are a few ways that you could go about mending what damage has been done just start with trying to rekindle the flame from the start of the relationship send here a love letter or something like that to show her you are always going to be there, if you can surprise her with a visit, try opening up to her first and showing her that your heart still belongs with her.
honestly though if you are both sad being with each other as much as it will hurt sometime its for the best to end things, honestly try to work it out first but there's no point in staying with someone if it makes you unhappy and i'm sure no matter what you decide to do there will always be someone out there for you.
all the best and best of luck.
sorry to hear things are difficult for you, can I ask how old you both are and how long have you been dating your girlfriend?
Ok. Well. I am 15 almost 16. I'm scared to include her age. But. Lets just say she's a little younger than me. This last Tuesday was our three month anniversary. Before we were dating we were best friends. We took each others depression away. We were happy. We have fights often. She. Actually almost broke up with me on Tuesday. But she said I have two weeks to make everything better
You live 500 miles apart, how did you meet, was it a holiday romance?
Can you try and maintain this as just a friendship, albeit a long distance one for the time being? Perhaps until you are both a little older and your feelings are less raw?