He has me?
So my ex and I are talking this morning and he asked about my sex life so far…and then he told me he did it with I’m guessing his rebound. I am kinda mad about it. But he keeps saying he has me. He said “you don’t have to use sex to get me, I have you
” what? I’m trying to get it through to him that he can’t use me for that. If he want he has has me like wants to get back? What does that even me? He doesn’t really have me. He just thinks he does. Help?
I've never really heard that one before! But to say "I have you" to another, and in the situation you are in with him being your ex, I would think he is trying to tell you that you are his. "I have you" sounds like a thugged out way of saying "You are mine".
With that said, it doesn't appear he is saying "you are mine" in the context of love and commitment, but rather just sexually. That is not to say he doesn't feel for you or even love you, but it's clear that he isn't expressing those feelings right now, hence your own confusion.
Just be real and ask him straight up what he feels and what he means.