Have no friends
I had a great marriage. I met my wife on a christian dating site five years ago. She was from Illinois and I was from Boston. So I left my job in Boston and move in with her. We got married the following year and things were fine for the first four years and we realized that this was not something we should have done but I hung on until she asked me to leave. I have no family back in Boston and I have no friends mostly because I can not get out of the house much because of my disability and I have tried this chat room but no one seems interested in talking. Anyone in a similar situation can post me at any time. This loneliness is hard to deal with at times, I just need someone to talk to. Thank-You for reading my post.
i am having wife issues myself so i understand how tricky it is. Where are you, like are you in your own place?
Firstly, I would like to state that whatever i write here, is my personal opinion and that the reader may or may not use my advice. I shall not be held responsible for any consequences, if any.
You mentioned about your disability in your text. So, I personally feel that you should firstly look for a job. This will help you boost up your confidence in yourself and also bring you some money. You may try and look for a helping home where you can shift to until you can get your own place to live. Also, do not jump in for any relationship or any serious things for now. First stabilize your own life and then look down that road. I feel that you should not take any hasty decisions like you did in past like moving in with your present wife.
You may chose to separate with your wife once you feel that you are able enough to hold your own self independently.
As far as your being lonely is concerned, your job will help you interact with different people on the job. You may do some voice calling job where you can talk to hundreds of people. AND I AM NOT JOKING AT ALL! I have known people who do these call center jobs not for quick bucks but for the fact that talking to different unknown voices gives them happiness.
Simply remember NOTHING"S TOUGH
Well I sit in front of my computer and do history of 16th and 17th century Russia. Be glad to write but it might be short and once or twice a day.
i can totally introduce you to someone that I know. does this website allow sharing of contacts? Or i can just ask him to join here and become friends on this chat-room...
let me know
(SD, just to let you know: It's unnecessary for you to type that disclaimer of yours because it's a standard given on a forum that all advice represents personal opinion and responsibility with employing it or not lays with the recipient.)