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I have been married for 30 yrs and for about the last 5 my husband and I have been living in the same house but not really living together. I have a problem with sex as I don't like sex. I don't know what the problem is but I don't like being held and I don't seem to be able to get close to my husband. I don't love him any more but I do care. What do u think I should do?

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Was it 5 years ago that you became disinterested in sex? How was it before that? When is the last physical you have had? (GYN?) Can you think of something that happened around that time that was life changing? (death, betrayal, health issue, kids leave OR move back in, job change, financial trouble, moved to new location, affair?) How old are you and husband?

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I have always not been interested in sex . My husband was the only man I've had sex with. I was very young when u became pregnant and had a child. 5 years ago we had a big fight and he said u do ur thing and I'll do mine. We have never talked about things as he will not talk about our problems. He is a man who doesn't want to face anything. I have never talked to a gyn about my problem as I'm a very shy and keep things to myself. We always have fought about money as his money is his as I only work casual . He is a generous man to his friends but not to me.

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So why are you sad? It seems like the two of you are in agreement.

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