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Hopeless Totally

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I'm the only child of my parents, mba graduated, gone for a arrange marriage with a divorcee.i thought as he encountered failure in his 1st marriage so he will love me a lot, after marriage from the very first day her mother started misbehaving with me, after 1st night when I walked up 1st morning at 7, she made bad faces on me and sd this is not the way girls should do, u must wake up by 5 and start doing household work, from 1st day I started working in their home, after sweeping wen I was doing moping she stud on my head and sd pick everything on ground like chair drums table bags and then do moping and replace them back, they were very rude to me, evrytime commenting on me, trying to find fault in me.husband hitted me with his sleeper badly, on the 2nd day of honeymoon abused me badly, coz of another gal, he always degraded abused hitted me for another gals.ive bearing dis from last 2 years , I Hv 12 and half month baby.during entire pregnancy thy all kept on fighting with me.ive given 185 gm gold in dowry and expanded around 5 lakh rs in marriage .I don't Hv my own house was residing in rented one, my dad expired when I was 14 yes old, my mom was government employee raised me up, I put condition dt my mom will sty wdme she is a pensioner but is now 66 yes old got problems in her leg, evrytime thy all shout on me and my mom syn low grade ppl wdout home, like dogs , u r ill now coz ur black hearted people abusive words so much, I wna tk divorce but he sys he will kill me if I ruin is social image, I'm feln very depressed daily I cry a lot.

Hopeless Totally

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He already has a "social image" - he is a mama's boy, already once divorced, abuser, manipulator, bad father, and user and disrespectful of you and your family. Get away from him ASAP!! He can worry about his social image later. Tell him that everyone will know what kind of man he is if he does not let you go. You and your mother need to get up the courage to leave him and this very unhealthy marriage. Do this for your child.

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I'm sure this abusive little man with his abusive little parents *would* try to threaten you against leaving. But I think you'll find being convicted of murder would harm his so-called social image far more than his wife leaving him. So take no notice of that ridiculous threat. Have you and your mother any close relatives that would take you both in thus to whom you could flee?

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