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Hi! Im from US, I am 16 years old. I have never had any relationships and I have even not get my first kiss yet. It makes me so sad. I moved from Spain to US 2 years ago. When I visited Spain 1 year ago, I fell in love with my best friend's ex. We had a party together. I think that my friends knew that I am in love because I was looking at that guy (his name is Carl) all the time, and so did he. My friends told this to my best friend and she was very angry. But I told her do not worry because there is nothing between me and Carl. I was lying.. So I went back to US, I talked to Carl sometimes in facebook but it was more like how are you and is everything okay. I heard that Carl had a relationship with one girl 3 months and then they broke up. Now Carl is single. I am going back to Spain soon, to see my friends. I really want to be Carl's girlfriend, but I do not know what to do. I think that I am too shy to tell him that I really like him. And maybe he does not want a long distance relationship, and what will my best friend say..

In love

At 16, a long distance relationship will be VERY difficult to maintain. Why not just look forward to seeing him and developing a friendship. You really don't know much about him now. Let nature take its course! Have fun and don't think you are going there JUST for him. Expect the unexpected!

In love

There's no harm in LDR, keep the communication in touch.. If Carl would be your happiness, follow your heart.

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