Stay or go
OK so here's the problem and and my bf have almost been together for 4 years during the second year we decided to move in together so we started lookin for a house when we were closing it didn't go well so we waited another year we started fighting about what house to get my mother was always in my ear but now the he closed on a house and says he doesn't know about our relationship he is always bringing up stuff from the past he even started moving in the house and hasn't said anything about us but I don't know hes been saying things lately like maybe I'm ment to be alone and things like that should I stay or should I go I really love him and want to work it out
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You love HIM and want to work it out but he has to have the same willing or it can't work.
Have you tried asking him what he wants rather than his simply listing all the things he doesn't? Alternatively, it might be a better idea just to give him the space to come out of his little cloud of delayed-reaction resentment in order that the GOOD memories can start to flood back in and take over.