Can I make her fall for me again?
I and my girlfriend both are 18, in a relationship from 6 months. The starting was good. I had a habbit of going to my hometown every weekend which i was supposed to spend with her. After about 2 months she sent me about 20-25 message simultaneously saying that my habbit of always going home depresses her, she thought that i took her for granted, and even said that earlier she was crazy for me but that craziness is decreasing. So i decided to change but i thought it was too late. Every weekend i asked her out but she made excuses that she's busy, started replying too late to my texts. Ocassionally called me if i didn't. 4 days before her birthday even we had no contact. After the day of her birthday i confessed that it was hurting to me and i want her to change but she asked to change the topic as she wasn't comfortable talking about it. Same repeated again and again. So i decided to end it. I asked to talk for a last time but again she was too late at replying on texting so i decided to call her. She picked up the call and asked what happened. She thought it was another joke but i was serious and said that it was time to finish it but she laughed. I lost my temper and straught away finished things. For next 2-3 days she texted me herself asking few normal daily things. Then after 6 days of break up i again brought i same unfinished topic then she said many things as mentioned above and promised to improve and decided to sort out all the stuff face to face. We went out together, had lots of talks and fun but not about the main thing. Again, same attitude from her. What to do please help?
You are insisting that SHE change, and she's not having anything to do with it.
So you ended it. "I lost my temper and straught away finished things."
Then, when you did get back together, you said she had the "same attitude." Not good enough for you.
What to do? Know that you can't change anyone, really.
Time to call it quits and move on.
I would be too much difficult to finish things off. Can you tell me things i can do to get things back to normal because somewhere inside she also loves me.
I also thought the same. call it quits and move on. Most of the gals doesn't have the same stuffs and the same thinking once they changed. Well if you can cope up with the things that she's currently on, and well, understand it. i think it can be effective. but if and only you can handle it. That's what a relationship needs. Understanding and Love. goodluck then.
Actually i finally made it!
Woah. Congratulations Then. HAHA