Married 20+ years. How do I tell her she needs to clean (feminine hygiene). Because I can smell her from across the room. I don't want to hurt her feelings. Help please.
Does she bath regularly?
This smell can also be from her clothes, her shoes, skin, or even her hair.
How old is she? Is she overweight?
When did this start? Is she depressed?
(And does she tend to smell this way only or mostly the day after intercourse or during her menstrual period?)
Why don't you ask her to take a shower with you? Not only is it romantic, but you can also scrub your wife to remove whatever smells on her body.
Be concerned for her well being. Pick up some "feminine wash". I recommend summer's eve in the pink bottle, it's free of dye and perfume and can wash anything without causing infection, itch, etc. (Also good for sensative skin, like when even Dove causes an allergic reaction to the calluses on your feet.) Take a romantic couple's shower and use it as you would body wash.
"Why don't you ask her to take a shower with you? Not only is it romantic, but you can also scrub your wife to remove whatever smells on her body.
HA-HA, WHAT A NO-FUSS-BRILLIANT, HIGHLY POSITIVE (AND HILARIOUS) SOLUTION!!!