I've got a friend, we're both gals. we started our friendship since our 2nd year in high school and now, we're already at our 2nd year in college. Actually it is too hard that we, best friends studies far away from each other, she'd studying an island away from ours. we supposed to study there together but i didn't continue and just study here at our place instead.
For a year of being away with each other, it really gives me a hard time thinking how she have been, how she's feeling, how she coped up with the new surroundings she had. I even failed at my major just thinking too much. I really loved her that I even ignored everyone just to be with her just to continue the friendship that we had, just to be with her every time she went home. In all those times that she went home here at our place she didn't gave me noticed that she's going home, that she'll be home. I just got to know it to our high school friend and that hurt my feelings and pride as her best friend. the real issue here happened last friday. she saw our pictures (some of my highschool classmates) and she started posting that she was jealous that we didn't tell her and that she knows what we really are. that we always make her out of place when I always gather up my senses just to make her feel that she's not and that i'm here. after that day up until now, she didnt talk to me. i kept messaging her even ate my pride to tell that i'm sorry even I didn't know what i did. but just to be with her, i'll need to. but I didn't know that she's home. she didn't told me. how would i know right? but with all these i still want to have her i can give up and do whatever she wants me to do just to have her again. to save our friendship. i really loved her and missed her... she's my best friend, my super ultra mega one and only best friend, a sister.
what should i do.?
Someone even Pick pocketed and attacked me yesterday. even i want to tell her what happened to me yesterday i can't cause she's not talking to me.
I think i'm going crazy and tired thinking of ways just to talk to her.
what should i do.?
Its just a matter of misunderstanding. If she isn't replying, wait for a week or two. Till then just be out of her. Maybe she's just depressed because her life out there. She wants you. Just wait till you both get to talk again. Just saying sorry would never solve a problem. Explain her the whole scene and ask her what was your mistake?
And i promise if she was a real best friend ever then she would surely listen to you and everything would be fine again!
Yeah. you're right. But i'm actually afraid to ask her or tell her (even though yeah i know i haven't done wrong)it's her decision after she heard my explanation that i fear. i want to make things clear but i may end up messing it.
After all, i'll take your advice and do it. thanks