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Relationship advice Recently i had to move from my ppartment because my boyfrendd said it wasnt safe. He told me to come live with him until i found something else. I did. He also told me to quit my previous job and i did. Now he says he doesnt want to be with me any more. Should i move to a shelter or just stay here until he forces me to leave?

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Because he said, he told you, he said? Where's YOUR responsibility in all this? Couldn't you have just said no?

I would stay - reminding the self-serving git that he was the one manipulated you into this situation (obviously just for sex-on-tap) - but use the bought time to as quickly as possible find another job and apartment and that if he makes you effectively homeless then you're going to find it that much harder to gain other employment (which would make him a monster). And then learn this hard-won lesson of yours that you do NOT EVER hand your entire means for positive welfare over into another human being's control, good-looking or not, until that person has proven over time and in myriad situations and circumstances that their so-called care and concern isn't just selfishness and impulsiveness disguised in pretty wrapping paper and a bow. Oh, and that one should NEVER chuck in a job unless it's because they've been offered another (IN WRITING).

...Not, I'm sure, that you would, now. (What price progress, eh?)

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