My bf has desire for other women. Its all been done. Cheating, Attempting, Half naked risky pics, flirting, lies.
but im stuck feeling like one day he will stop. But hasnt. we broke up and agreed not to sleep with anyone else but he did
we have once again broken up, found a number hidden on his ipod. Im so heartbroken. took him back and now i can hardly keep from crying.
idk. im lost. i think im mentally done with him. but how do i leave? i have no job. He just lost his.
I have one month to pack and find a place to live. im so tired of all of this pain. and on top of that my
spiritual relationship seems to keep slipping to the back burner..
I don't know for sure but I have a feeling that he's not going to change, and in years to come you may be looking back and regretting that you didn't leave him sooner. In dreamland he'll be sorry promise the sun moon and stars, and for a while he will be that man who adored you and only had eyes for you, but in reality he will probably behave as he has been. However, some actually do change but only if they want to and only if they still care enough and love you, so perhaps counselling may help?
But if deep down you feel he doesn't want to be there and he's going to continue his cheating and flirting, then you already know what you want to do, but I understand that's a big step with a baby.
Can you move in with a friend or family member for a few weeks? maybe if he actually sees that you are serious about leaving and he has run out of chances, that it might jolt him into what's important, that he could lose you and his son. And maybe he will concentrate on giving back his attention and affection to you.
hope things work out for you
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