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My girlfriend's mother forces us to break up

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So i have this problem. I am an apprentice seaman, and my girlfriend is still in OJT. She is a flight stewardess. Her OJT is until DECEMBER. Our relationship is LDR and we didn't see in person since weve meet online. Then our communication is thru skype, facebook and txt. First week she tells her father that she has a boyfriend, then her father supported us. 2 months with our relationship she opens up our relationship to her mother, but her mother told her to broke up with me or else she wont receive any amount of money and her ATM would be confiscated by her uncle. No allowance money means she wont finish her OJT and she has also a working student so she needed a money because her working student could be forced to stop in his studies. Her mother also told her that she wants to monitor the facebook account of her daughter to make sure that we just broke up also the phone of my girlfriend was monitored by her aunty she told me that. She also told me to stop chatting in here facebook because her mother sometimes uses it. So we decided and forced to break up even if we love each other so much. We give promises that we can wait till January and then rebuild our relationship. For me this girl is very special and i can accept that our relationship could be end just like that same as her. Everynight we do skype i always saw her tears droping in her face and she says sorry all the time into me. June 21 our relationship ended then june 24 she decided that she's going to stop communicating me because she will focus on her job. In that night i feel like i was lost, so the next day me and my cousin decided to buy a drink, while i drink to much alcohol i always look at our old conversation in facebook but i accidentally chatted her and i told her sorry its a wrong send. But when she's online in facebook she unfriend me on facebook but she follows my public post. So i posted these "She just unfriend me :(" then after that she unfollows me. So i decided to txt her about that but she wont respond to my text messages. Then i decided to chat her in FB since she is always online and told her about that but she just SEEN my chat and she wont respond. Then there is a friend of mine who volunteers to chat with her and give her an advice, but when my friend sends her message to her, she suddenly block my friend but she saw the message. I chatted her again in my other account because we were friend in my other facebook account. I told her that why does she did it to me. Al i was asking is to accept my friend request then i wont chat her again, i also told her that please dont block me or unfriend me on facebook same as what you did to my friend. She just SEEN my facebook chat and then she just ignored it. When i look at her profile, i just saw that some of her photo's with my name on it was edited and erased. Then my pics in her facebook was deleted except for those pic that only my foot was shown. I told her to stop removing my name on her photo since she gives me a promise that we will be okay until she finished her OJT. I told her that you said that were getting back together until you finished what your mother wishes for you to finished your study but why are you ignoring me all the time, i didnt hurt your feelings?? I just saw her also on my other account that she always put a LIKE on other the other mans photo while me even if i just requested her to accept my friend request but she wont accept it. And as i stalk her fb she didnt remove the mans picture which she screensho their chat. Bdw that picture was taken when back to were just friend with my girlfriend. So i told her about that, why she didnt remove that screenshot picture while all of my picture in her fb except to my foot was removed. Her old photos with my name tagged on it was still there since i told her that if you want us that were getting back together then stop removing my name. I give her a hint, should i wait for you or not because your ignoring me all the times. My only request for you is to stop removing my name on your photo and dont remove the picture of my foot. She didnt remove it. Until i saw again that she just give a 5 consecutive likes into the other man, and what makes me sick is that she is always online but she just ignores me. I told her again about that and then again she just SEEN my message but she texted me. Here's her text messages "Hope Jake that you understand my situation right now. I know how it hurts but pls im begging you pls just stop or else i would be forced to block you on facebook. Im so annoyed right now just give me space". That's her text and i replied. "Okay so i understand your situation but i just want us ti be friends in facebook and i wont chat with you till january. I can wait for you because i love you soo much and i always care for you. I respect your parents decision thats why im here waiting. Okay ill just give you time. Sorry that i annoyed you. This is my last message and i wont chat neither text with you again until January". Then she didnt replied. What should i do? Should i wait for her and trust her promises or should i move on?? I love her but i felt like she just dumped me even if i did my best on her and shows her that i always cares and treated her as my queen even in times like this. She promises to me that we will be FOREVER but should i trust her FOREVER?? I felt like i want to giveup but because i love her i am willing to wait until January. Any advice?? Thanks in advance

My girlfriend's mother forces us to break up

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I am sorry, but it looks like she has moved on. I wish there was an easier way fo put it but fortunately there isn't. I know you are hurting right now and it feels like pain will not end. You have to stop creeping her face book and stalking her. Cut it off. This will make it far easier on you than it is right now. I wish you the best of luck a d belueve there is someone oht there for you

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