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LGBT advice Hey guys! I have a little problem. I had unsafe sex with somebody I don't know and even though he showed me his STD's results being negative from a test he took in April, I'm worried and not ok with what I've done and I start to realise this is not me... Recently I've been starting dating guys and I'm also not ok with this. My head is being a mess right now... I just hope it will all end well...and this is my problem.

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Ok, well if he has had all major tests then hopefully it should be ok.
The only thing is, if the results were from April, of course this leaves a window period of a couple of months, so depending on if he had any partners since then and safe sex was not practiced, then it would be hard to say things are ok 100%
If you don't already go to one, look up your local sexual health clinic and consider popping along.
Re dating what is it that you think is wrong, or rather, how would you prefer things to be?

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its fine.. just go get tested and always protect yourself. these things happen. just be more mindful, its life, we all make mistakes. i am sure you are fine

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I would prefer things to be simple. You know... I prefer having a sense of stability and honestly I wish I didn't have to cope with homosexuality and have a gf and know that eventually i will marry her, have kids, the classic scenario.

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I'm suspicious. How come, if this was a one-night-stand, this guy had a negative STD test so readily to-hand to wave in your face? Plus, never mind April - would you even be able to tell an authentic test result from a fake one? Did you even ask to see an STD test result or did he volunteer it (and why did he)?

Hmm... Agree you should get yourself tested, just to be on the safe side.

Question: were you 'ok with' dating women? Did you have your heart broken recently?

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Negative test from April huh? Truth... That doesn't mean anything after the test. In other words... What has he done since the test results? You're playing with fire.

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