Gf I think
So about 2 weeks ago my gf started being distant with her feelings and the way she acted and all. she said to me she didnt want to be serious or anything. so i carried on like nothing happened. she started talking to another guy and said she didnt know how she felt about her feelings about me and everything. today i removed my facebook in a relationship thing off and she seen it and asked why did i remove it? who asks that when she made it clear that we're not together aparently? here is the kicker ive got a flight to see her in about a month what do i do i cant get a refund or anything on the tickit. i feel if i got there it may fix things but the way they are going at the moment i dont know help please
LDRs are difficult to maintain even after years of marriage. If your GF isn't with you 100% and her actions back her words, then why bother flying to see her? If you can change your relationship status on FB, then you have basically made an initial decision that you are single. You may fix things temporarily, by flying to see her, but with the distance involved, you will have to do this again and again and you need to ask yourself if your relationship is worth the effort. Are you getting out what you are putting in?
You can't make your GF be with you 100%, instead it should be a given that she needs to be with you, regardless of distance. Going by your post, she doesn't have that need. You have a choice as to where you go with your relationship, but you need to choose what's best for you.
When a person tells you that they do not want to be serious relationship BELIEVE THEM. DON'T PRETEND YOU DID'NT HEAR WHAT THEY ARE TELLING YOU.
This is not a person that wants to be with you. Move On, you deserve someone who wants you. Don't settle for anything less.