hmmmmmm.............i have a problem withy own mother,she is kind,but she is strict,she even talks in a silly way when i do or say things,i don't think that sounds logical,what i am trying to say is that she tries yo teach me things in life not in a right way,she thinks she knows me well,but seriously she doesn't,i know she is my mother and i shouldn't talk about her that way,but she even gets on my nerves,seriously she even puts her partner/boyfriend against me some of the moments,living under her roof is really hard,like a nightmare,i feel like i'm a prisoner in my own home and i shouldn't be,i can't even relax and concentrate
another thing,i even hear them talking in our garden about me,other people,life things,simple problems ect,i should just ignore it but is really,really hard
it has been happening for a really long time,what shall i do? should i ask for Council help on housing? i honestly can't take it anymore
i'm so sorry about english grammar mistakes
Im sorry for that. I know how it feels bcz ive been there . Sometimes it rly hurts not being understood frm the very close people u live under the same roof. While they are suppossed to be THE ONES understand u well. And i kno it hurts when they leave u disappointed. I used to cry hard for ths . Its like theres no need to trust people . I always thought its a holy thingy that Parents shouldnt hurt their childs . I used to be like Mum u hurt me? And u leave me disappointed ? Crying all the night? How would i trust people outside then? When ur suppossed to me the One who cares most about me and here ur hurting me. That made me excpect anythin from other people. I dnt even kno if this was an advantage or not. But ita hurting me anyway. Listen , somethin i taught abt life. People will not change. U should find A WAY to get over this and make itt A LIFESTYLE that she will never be the way u'd like her to be. I tried to talk to Mama and tell her what annoys me and i asked politely for stop doing thing upset me. But i didnt work and left me more upset. So try to talk with her but put in consideration that it may 50% not work. So u will nt be disappointed. Try to get used to this life for UR SAKE. None will get hurt except u. So accept the fact that ur mum isnt the way u want her to be. In life some things WE ARE FORCED TO ACCEPT cz we cant change. I wish u the best!