I don't know what to do anymore
I have been with my husband for 11 years and married for just over a year. He has been on antidepressants for 3 years now and he can't have sex anymore. maybe once every 3-4 months if he really tries. We weren't even "together " on the night we got married. I love him very much but as a woman I have needs. I don't bring it up to him because I don't want him to feel bad, he says he wants to stop taking them but he won't talk to his doctor. What should I do or what can I do....
When did all this start? ("can't have sex anymore")
You need to both go to his Dr. and have the side effects explained about any medication he is on.
"I don't want to bring it up to him" - and let this develop into an even bigger problem? How is he to know that you need more intimacy in your marriage?
BTW - there is more to a happy sex life than an erection.
Comminication is the most importatnt thing. I think that you should tell him how you feel.
You need to tell him how you are feeling. How can you resolve the problem if he isn't aware there is one to begin with? If you are feeling unsatisfied sexually you need to tell him in a way that won't attack him or affect his self esteem. I think you should attempt to build his confidence up and hopefully that will translate well in the bedroom department. It doesn't really surprise me that he doesn't want to go to the doctor. I mean what guy wants to admit he can't get a hard on? That's not the way men operate.
I think people are over reliant on medication these days. Medication isn't the answer to everything, especially psychological. Altering or numbing the problem is not a solution. If he truly wants to get off the medication I suggest you go in with him and try and find an alternative that will not affect his sex drive.
Sex is an important part of any marriage, but communication is the foundation. You NEED to discuss this with him. Your needs and desires are just as important as his. Yes he is having problems but you ignoring the fact that you feel neglected is not going to help.
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