My evil uncle
hi i have an Uncle who have used me and destroyed my career. He is obssessed with the extended family. He is possesive and cannot think of any other person having a good relationship with the family members. He is a liar and has used lots of people. He liked to control everything and has fooled people all around by telling them all kind of lies. God does not ike t him at all. My uncle is very manipulative and has hurt lots of people. I have lost all my family members and everybody in the family hates me. What should i do so as not to feel down? In 2005, when i was taking part in my school certificate examination, he made use of me and made me fail my exams. Since then when God punished him, he rebelled and has been using people against me by telling all kind of lies about me and making them hate me.Please give me some advice how to get rid of this man. I have talked to him but it did not work
Find the reason why he is doing mean things to you on that way you can solve this. He might stop or not but prove them you are a good person. Lies will not kept secret all the time. Caught him on act but don't let aggression overcome you. The best way to defeat this kind of person is to show that you are strong and will not be affected by his nasty work. Pursue to be successful and happy. Hope i have embark some solution for you.
"Repay no one evil for evil, but give thought to do what is honorable in the sight of all. If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all. Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, “Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.” To the contrary, “if your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink; for by so doing you will heap burning coals on his head.” Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."
Romans 12:17-21 ESV
"Then Jesus said to him, “Put your sword back into its place. For all who take the sword will perish by the sword. Do you think that I cannot appeal to my Father, and he will at once send me more than twelve legions of angels? But how then should the Scriptures be fulfilled, that it must be so?”"
Matthew 26:52-54 ESV
"“You have heard that it was said, ‘An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth.’ But I say to you, Do not resist the one who is evil. But if anyone slaps you on the right cheek, turn to him the other also."
Matthew 5:38-39 ESV
"Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, “Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.”"
Romans 12:19 ESV
How old are you?
What do you men by "he made use of you, which caused you to fail your exam?
How has he turned your family against you?
How exactly did God punish him? What lies is he spreading against you- What is he telling your family?
If you are of legal age, you now can take control over who you allow your life. If you are still under age, this should be the first thing you do as a adult. Prepare your self to be self sufficient.It important to continue your education, so that you will able to support yourself and be independent.
He is too obssessed with power and family. He liked to have control over everything. He has fooled too many people. He liked to use one people and made him or her famous in the family by praising him or her and then stabbing him or her in the back at the same time. The other members of the family are afraid of him and listen to everything that he says. He is declaring himself to be the messenger of God and he himself do not practice what he preaches. Backbiting is very common in my country and the people are fool to believe in everything that is being told. When he declared himself to be a messenger, there was a man who sided with him and that man has left him alone. My Uncle does not know how to handle responsibilities but only like to show off. I don't want to take revenge on him but only want to forget him. I no longer see him since 2012 but he cannot go out of my mind. His daughter is very jealous of me because i am beautiful and she is obssessed with her cousins. I just do not want to think about them. Tell me how to do it.Thank you
i am 25 years old and this has been happening for ten years
I'm glad you see this man for what and who he is. Something in the past 10 years has left you dramatized and you are still dealing with the effects it has had on you.
Since you have done the most important thing, that is you removed yourself from the tormentor. You should seek counseling. You now have control over your life- you need to deal with why/how this still effects you, so you can move on and leave it where it belongs in the past.
Remember "the best revenge is living well"
I am in love with a barrister who is 20 years older than me. he is a barrister of law and he does not want to get married. i have a sister who suffers from celebral atrophy since birth and she is 21 years old. i don't have the courage to go and tell him that i love him. i keep thinking about him everyday and everynight. how can i forget him?