i was with a guy I was head over heels with for 3 years. We recently broke up but we've been on and off for the whole relationship. The past three years have been really bad but really good. The bad were always because I had always caught him messaging other girls on Facebook or texting them. This time I think we are done for good. He just stopped talking to me out of nowhere after three years. Blocked my number and blocked me on social media. I still have him stuff like his xbox and clothes etc.. I have tried contacting him via Facebook before he blocked me and always had a reason as to why he couldn't come get his stuff. I would like advice as to why he won't come pick up his stuff and what might be a good idea to do with his stuff because I'm to depressed to figure out what to do. Please and thank you in advance.
Honestly, considering how he treats you and the fact that he constantly feels the need to talk to other girls, even if he did try to get back together I wouldn't, you deserve way better than that! That being said, try sending him a notice in the mail, certified or someway that you know he received it, letting him know that you have his things and that you will hold onto them for 30 more days and after that you'll be getting rid of the items. At that point I'm sure if he wants them he'll come get them, because I'm sure you don't like seeing them around. Until then I would just box it up and put it away in the garage or somewhere where you don't have to look at it all the time. I've been in quite a few relationships that sound a lot like the one you were Just in and I'm telling you they're completely unhealthy, the good times definitely don't make up for the bad, not by a longshot, and once you find A great guy that treats you right, you'll be sitting there laughing wondering why you even gave him so many chances to begin with. Good luck!