Hi, so I've never done this before so it feels...different. but my bf and I've been dating for over two years, we've acted like we've been married as soon as we started going out. My problem now is that lately (as in the about the last six months) things have been dull like we're an old old married couple. He never comes up to me to kiss, hug, squeeze or show any affection, he never says he loves me anymore, when we have sex he never kisses me or does any foreplay. I always go to him and give him affection, even after a big argument and our friends consoling us and him saying he will change... things have not changed! I'm 20 years old and Idk what to say or do. I am not in a serious relationship for bad sex and stress all the time Please any advice is appreciated!!
I Hope this will help You. its difficult to give a good advice.
When I have Sex, they also never kiss me and its allways unromantically. I had a lot "boyfriends" and I would not say they were ever serious, or had good intentions. I think there Are some critics like to filter out the not good men ans You Can check on theyr behaviour: When they never say good night and good morning, dont remember your birthday and want to have sex with you on first day and you cannot let them into your house without wanting you to fuck, when you have to run after them like a dog... .
Then they are not worth of anything. Take care of yourself, feel your soul and body, dont let you fuck by everyone!
You have a choice as to whether you want out of this relationship or you keep on going around and around with no end in sight. Going by your post, your relationship is rocky and while you are at least trying to something about it, you are doing yourself no favours by always going to him. His actions are telling you that he has lost interest and your challenge is to find out why and then do something positive about it rather than argue about it with him.
A true relationship is a two way street and if you are the only one contributing to it, then you are on your own. A man in love with a woman puts her on a pedestal, communicates his love, reassures her with his actions and keeps her heart safe. He never fails to put her first before himself. When a woman reciprocates these actions, then you have a true successful relationship.
Be true to yourself and ask yourself what you need and expect from a happy relationship and then take some positive steps to find it.