My brother is angry
My brother is so upset because i don't like his girlfriend. I told him, i don't have a problem with him dating her and i don't plan to interfere. He asked for my honest opinion and i responded with the truth. I don't like her at all. She is a wild girl, who always curses, and seems to just be into the party life. My brother is going to school, has a good job, and i just hoped for someone better. But if that's whom he likes, then it is what it is. He is an adult and can make his own decisions, he asked for my opinion and i gave it to him. Am i supposed to lie? don't see why he is mad.
My family warned me about the woman I married. She was sex abused and was absolute wild, like your brother's girlfriend, who may have also been sex abused.
I knew my girlfriend was wild, also, but married her because I was going through absolute heck in my life, and realized I didn't want to be by myself, and reached out to whoever was nearby, and she was nearby.
The marriage was a totaled disaster, times 10. However, I looked into my future living by myself, and I saw absolute disaster, times 10.
So did I gain by marrying her? No. Would my life have been better if I had not married her? No. I needed her. I needed someone by my side. But she was determined that I wasn't going to make any gains by marrying her. After all, it was a male who sex abused her, and I was a male. No way I'm gonna win, not with her pathological anger, and my just regular anger.
So, it was a dogfight, like 2 dogs in a pit. We couldn't get out, because we were buying a house and we had a child. We could have, but we chose not to give up on those two things. And we both paid a price for that.
So it was plus times 10, minus times 10, equals zero, as far as gaining anything from marrying her. I think they call it life. I accomplished things that I could not have gained without her, but I paid a price.
We both had emotional problems, so neither one of us gained from marrying the other. My wife died 6 years ago of a long term illness. I told someone it was like a train coming at you, and it veers off the track at the last second.
I think you were right to express your opinion.