Highschool relationship help
I am a highschool student and there is this girl that I finally had the guts to say hi to. I walk and talk with her everyday after class, but we don't really talk in class at all almost like we kinda ignore eachother. I've gotten to know her a little like what kinds of stuff she does after school and what she like to do. She had given me her number and I text her from time to time. I don't really know what to do now, I ask her what she's doing on the weekend and she is always doing something, whether it's a sleepover, work, or church. She spends about 90% of her time at church and a youth group at church. Even though I keep telling myself it wont work out because she hardly has any time for a relationship, I still can't stop thinking about her and I just cant get myself to give up, it's really hard to describe my emotions for her. I'm even doing bad in school because I cant focus only on what to say to her. I'm trying to get to the point to ask if she wants to do something on the weekend, but she is always doing something (mostly at church). I'm starting to feel more comfortable around her and being my self a little bit, and I think she is to. I am thinking about going to the same youth group as her so we can spend more time together, but I dont want to seem like a creeper. I would appreciate any advice on what to do so I can become more than friends with her.
Looking at your situation, a relationship with her will take time and effort. Continue to talk to her and try to find more opportunities to get to know her better. When you feel like it is a good time, ask her what she thinks about you. You may want to ask her if it is okay for you to join her youth group if you decide to do it. I wouldn't recommend joining a church youth group if you are just doing it to be close to her. Try not to stress about it too much, and try not to let it affect your schoolwork. If you can spend more time with her that's great, but if not, at least you tried.
Thank you, I really appreciate the help. I\'m still talking to her and I feel more comfortable around her. Although, I kind of feel like a creeper because I know alot more about her than she does about me. I ask her something and she responds, but she doesn\'t really ask me anything in return. I try to tell a little bit about myself after she responds. Then there\'s that awkward silence until I think of something else to say, but she doesn\'t really say anything until I do. She\'ll sometimes say something in the beginning about math or whatever, but that\'s it. I\'m a really shy person and I don\'t know if she is too, but it\'s hard for me to just come up with stuff unless I get more comfortable with that person. Also, I kind of put it out there that I have never been to a youth group and she said if I wanted to I can come to the one she goes to, so I told her I decided to go. Although, I\'m going to the youth group to get close to her, so we\'ll see how this goes.