Potential love interest help
At the end of june i linked up with a childhood friend he was handsome smart and everything i though i wanted. i knew he was dating other women before he came into my life and that is not an issue. i haven't put any ultimatums on him i simply said if I'm worth it the other women will disappear. we went from talking all day long to not talking at all we have barely spoken since the 18 of october. we would hangout make plans in advance. we would be on a date already planning the next. the week of and the week after his birthday we had two disagreements. but since the last disagreement everything has been going downhill. we don't talk I'm afraid to say anything because we are not together. but its like we created a gray area because we do and say couple things but when it comes to expressing feelings its we are friends. we stopped having sex although which was all me.. even though he still gets horny when i see him we have not been intimate since august and i have no desire too until i figure out what is really happening. I really miss him and what he had. october 18 was our last date and real contact and i felt i was losing his attention so i gave him some space not just for him but to prepare myself to move on from him as well. i would like to give it another shoot to see if we could start over but i will move on if needed. what should I do. should i move on or try to work it. i say try to work it out because so many people just throw in the towel when they don't get their way. but that relationship is it takes work and compromise. please help
Sounds like he is just not interested. I would probably talk to him, but sounds like it's not your man. Both parties have to be interested in order to make a relationship work - you cannot do it by yourself.
I think you should try to talk to him. Share each others views and try to figure out what he wants. Don't break up a relationship just like that....