So a couple weeks ago I had left my ex a bag with the rest of some of her stuff I had and I had somethings I wanted to give her for her birthday, she wasn't giving me a date where she had time to meet up so I could give her it personally, and I was getting frustrated so I ended up just dropping it off to her house and this is the message she sent me days later.
Thank you for the bracelet and the card and the picture frame ant. I really love it all and it was a good reminder of everything i love about you.and exactly what you wrote is true.. As long aa were under te same moon the love will always be there and we will always be close at our hearts and in our souls.. I love your soul no matter where life takes either of us and no matter how far apart we are or grow nothing can take away from the bond we have always had. We are in different places in our lives and for BOTH of our happiness we need to let go or learn to try to for now bc its best for both of us. But i want you to know no matter what i have nothing but love for you ant.
Bickering and forcing some kind of relationship just to hold onto each other just brings us both to a point where we upset ourselves and each other more than do any good and it doesnt need to be the case between us anymore. And that card touched me from the bottom of my heart and what you wrote was beautiful.. You are an amazing human being ant and i hope maybe in time alone to figure yourself out you will see even half the good i always saw in you. I love you, and always will
Is there still a chance for us? We dated for 5 years. Broke up last May. I had started dating a girl last year around November till July of this year, and she got very upset and tried to get back with me. I had gone back and forth in my head with what to do. Eventually me and the other girl split and I wanted to be with my ex but she then did not feel that way anymore. We hung out a few times over the summer. She as of now is not involved with anyone, she wants her freedom to focus on finishing up with school. She should be done by the end of spring semester.
Do you think there is any chance in the future we could work things out?
If it's meant to be it will happen in time but in the mean time just focus on u and your life and the things that make you happy. I've been in the same situation but we didn't get back together but we still remain good friends. Like I said if your meant to be together you will be. Maybe she just needs time to find herself and experience life but what I do know is if u truly love each other nothing can keep you apart. But don't revolve your life and focus on that. Just live and if it's going to happen it'll happen. Be happy. Do the things that make you happy. Take time to just be with you. Sometimes being apart helps ppl see things that together they may not have been able to see. I hope everything works out for both of u.
Thank you very much. That was a very insightful response. I am trying to just let it be for now. But the loneliness hurts and I just miss love in my life.
That is a very expected emotion we all need and want love in our lives. And you can have that. Stop waiting around for someone to decide wether or not they want u in their life and go out and experience life. This world is so big and there's so many ppl out there. Date and just have fun.