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Too kinky, too soon??!

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I've been seeing a guy for about a week now. He's a really nice guy and we've had great, honest talks about our relationship, like where we're heading, how to achieve the kind of relationship we want etc.
One thing that's been bugging though is that he said he wants to have a threesome with me and another woman. While I'm not sure how I feel about this, I think it's too soon for him to be talking about kinky stuff.
I don't know what to do; I could tell him that's too early for him to be thinking about threesome, but my fear is that this issue will not go away easily, especially since we're planning to be together long term. What to do????

Too kinky, too soon??!

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A week is not a very long time. I feel like this may be the wrong relationship for you. Personally I think he has his properties messed up. A person should want to get to know u a lot longer than a week before introducing someone else into the relationship. From personal experience if u want to have a healthy relationship having a three some could be very damaging. All relationships are different but I feel like the person u choose to be with should want to be with and adore u and only you. There are tons of fish in the sea. I would look else where. Just seems like it's moving rather fast. Think about u and how moving to fast with someone who wants multiple partners could effect u in the long run.

Too kinky, too soon??!

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This guy sounds like he won't be doing anything "long term."

He's already bringing in others into your relationship.

Creepy, really creepy.

Too kinky, too soon??!

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Thank you both for your advise!

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