Please don't judge.I remarried after seeing him casually for 7yrs.I gave up & figured why not. A week b4 wedding I finally meet Mr right! Go thru w plans and try.we do nothing together and have nothing to talk about. Mr right has been waiting. I've seen him maybe 10 times a year for 7 years now.he is suddenly in a position of having more than enough room for me to move and wants me w him. We have much in common and talk forever when we can. I am finally employees enough to be able to move. I need to pull my own weight, and such. Now he is pulling away. I have neglected him too long I fear. He has a new job and shows signs of possibly meeting someone. Someone who is probably not married! I also suffer low self worth, ageing has been hard for me to accept (myself) & fear a younger better woman is going to step up. He deserves that. I feel guilty constantly and that feeds the self crap. Any advice? He is a great guy. Been single over 15 yrs, says,all he wants to do is share w me, his world. Why do I hesitate to trust that? Btw, husband doesn't deserve to be stuck w me.
Well something I've learned is the grass isn't always greener on the other side. Idk I'm not judging I just feel like it's unfair to ur husband to keep dragging him along. As for the other man it's probably hard for him loving u and knowing that ur with another man. I think u both need to talk and decide how to move the relationship forwards and if u both truly want to be together u need to just do it and u need to tell ur husband how u feel and about what's going on. But how long are u just going to wait?? It will only keep causing pain for all of u.