I probably dont need to use this website, but I really need to ask someone. I am 14 years old and me and my boyfriend had sex, unprotected sex. It was only for 5 minutes maybe, if that. I just ended my period, it was the day after I ended my period we had sex. He said he cummed inside but then he said was joking.. but im not sure if he really was. This was the third time I've had sex now, not sure if that matters.. would you think I am pregnant?
No - If you believe you are not pregnant.
Yes - If you afraid to be pregnant.
Since you are sexually active, having unprotected sex for 1 minute can cause a pregnancy.
Get educated about your risks- 1) Unwanted pregnancy 2) contracting transmitted diseases. At minimal don't have unprotected sex no matter what anyone tells you. No CONDOM NO SEX!
You're both young and don't realized how reckless you're being with your future. If your mother is not an option to talk to then find some "adult" who you can trust, there are many Woman clinics where you can get informed information. Never believe any MALE about whether they ejaculated or not- it's their whole purpose for having SEX!!
My advice to you would be to stop having sex. Neither of you are prepared for the life changing consequences.But having saying that STAY PROTECTED!!!
I agree with he above poster - but let me ease you this one time and please don't make the mistake again. You can not get pregnant after your period - up to a week. My ex was a pharmacist so he knew all about the fertility chart and stuff lol. Just don't do it again.
Anon - WHY do you continue to play with fire? THREE times and you still haven't learned?
Get yourself to a free women's health clinic ASAP for an exam and put on the pill or some other birth control. In the meantime, INSIST that he use condoms. He's being selfish not taking care of himself.
Ask your BF if he remember this joke: How many babies does it take to ruin your life? Answer: just One!!
"Ask your BF if he remember this joke: How many babies does it take to ruin your life? Answer: just One!!"
I could hug you sometimes, Susie, I really could!
(Couldn't really, but you get me point ;-))
Babies don't ruin your life. Belive me I have 3 and they are my world. Babies don't ask to be put on this planet. The only one who can ruin your life is your self. To avoid pregnancy stay protected. If your bf doesn't want to use it he's not worth bothering with.
(Poolchamp, the joke isn't attributing the blame to the babies themselves. It only does that if you read it literally without remembering how jokes have to have a succinct patter to them as requires a use of 'poetic free license'.)
Since you are already sexual active the best thing to do now is to protect yourself. I feel like you are too young to be having sex but unfortunately young adolescents are engaging in sexual intercourse and unsafe behaviors more and more. Taking a pregnancy test can always tell you if you are pregnant. If you find that your next period is late then it would be good to have one done. It doesn't take much to get pregnant. And you can become pregnant after your period. Having unprotected sex at any time is risky. Sometimes ovulation can take place within a few days of when your period ends and sperm can fertilize an egg for 72 hours after ejaculation. I would also suggest maybe considering birth control bills since your active. Best wishes to you and remember to protect yourself.