I am in love. With two men
I know that everyone thinks this is impossible, and i have tried to convince myself of the same but i know that i an in love with two men at the same time. I feel it in every bone of my body, it hurts with every thought, they are both so amazing, intelligent, hard workers. And I can't stand the thought of hurting either one i would give anything to take their pain away. if i could take that pain and feel it all myself i would. I'm in agony, it hurts to breathe, it hurts to think, i feel it in every bone, in every breath, i cannot take the though of hurting them, its slowly killing me inside. someone please..
It is common thing dn wory it also hapnd wid me last yr.take a break and avoid any comitment.close ur eyes think deeply and think without whom u cant live and whom can u realt love aftr a relatn.at one point u will reach to a conclusion trust me
No, you're not. You're half in-love with one half of a man and half in-love with another half of a man. Neither of which thereby counts as in-love. What it does count as (or seems to at the time), however, is you getting to make yourself only half-vulnerable here and half-vulnerable there.
The evidence is telling you that you've yet to find "the one", he whom alone checks nigh-on every single box of yours, meaning you should end it with BOTH (so that your vibes present as single & available when Mr Right comes trotting along, which at present they obviously aren't/can't) and you experience a PROPER romantic union with all the risks yet all the incredible perks as make those risks pale into insignificance before quickly becoming immaterial/never more a consideration.
Better to force someone to undergo short-term pain for the sake of their own longer-term gain rather than the other way around (and that applies to yourself, too). So your choice is actually between hurting them both (and yourself) a little or, a bit later down the line, MAJORLY.
So now you have to sit down and sort out in your mind who, what and why made you want to hide half your heart behind your back, out of reach.
Still, the good news (contained in the action of your now asking) is that you're obviously about ready to do a relationship PROPERLY at last.
I tell frm my experience.my csn Army officer proposed me in March 2014 a month .i liked him as a csn but i straightly said him yes.now at the same time i began to have frdship wid my clasfelow.i was confused bcoz i thot i loved both.my csn was presurising me for marriage but i took 6months to thnk over it (i dint tel him abt my guy frd in uni) and in meantym i told my frd that i began to like u he gave me no ans.i left both at the moment no comitment and just waited to see and think.in 6 months our frdship grewer even in 3rd month he proposed me.we alrdy had bcum best frds and so i thot that he was really the one whom i loved.best frds prove to be the real soulmates.anyways i rejected my csns proposal n startwd a relatn wid my frd and yes with Gods will we have ups and downs but we hav enjoyd our relatn and there was never a big gap or problm in our rlation.i am v thankful to God that i didnt rush n took fair decism at ryt tym.we plan to marry