Hi, I am married 2 years ago with a year old kid now. I had evil in-laws torturing me mentally and physically wer in I filed a case against them after 6 months of my marital life. That time I had 5 months of pregnancy too. My husband never stood by me nor he is bothered about my self respect or dignity. He is a great actor acting silent at my worst situations of my life. And later blaming me that I was only responsible for the situations I underwent. Moreover he iz a 2 faced person with me and his family but leaves my hand and holds his family when worst situations arise between me and his family. Besides he always keeps blaming me and creates a evil image of me in his family and friends. He is Always gaining sympathy from his family and friends as if he is undergoing lot torture stayin with me. And he keeps poking me dat he is not happy with me and just compromised his life for our kid. I am thinkin to divorce him. Need help...
I've got a couple questions, I assume that I have the answers that I'm think of, but I'll ask anyway.
Have you confronted him personally about this? What do your family think of this? Finally, if it come down to it, are you ready to divorce him?
Because from what's going on, maybe it's best for you and your child to separate from him and his family. Also, you say your husband stands by his abusive family, is there a reason to why he supports his current family, rather than his "future family"?
I want to be impartial, so that's why I ask these questions, so I can understand the situation a bit better.
Hi, yes I told him abt divorce. But as always he iz not taking me seriously and behaving in asusual manner. Dat is not talkin to me for weeks. My family is ready to help me in my divorce and yes I can giv him divorce for final. He is standing by his family Becaz he iz mommas boy and an orthodox too.. Wants me to stick to his family and mainly his Tamil culture whatsoever may b da situation. I belong to a Telugu family. Also he doesn't hav habit of taking burdens. He was a very very pampered kid at his moms place. Now takin Care of me and my kid is a huge burden for him and just want to throw al his responsibilities i.e me and my kid on his mom. However she treats uz and whatever she speaks to us. He doesn't care.