PeoplesProblems Logo

I don't know what to do in my life. Confusing situation with my gf

Default profile image
About a year now .. I meet a girl while .. we had a great times and bad times as well... And we've been together for a while she was super good girlfriend to me and than we decide to build our life together and we moved together and we share everything money..home..everything and thats help me a lot its make us feel safe and everything .. We got to save some money and also pay to my university .... But thats the problem... Im never had sex with any other girl , she was the only girl that i slept with.. But she hada bf before and they break up and aftr that she got 2 one night stands and everytime i keep thinking about it i feel soo badd from my self and from everything .. I really want to have more experience and im super curious about having sex with other womens and stuffs ... In the other hand i dont wanna break up with her and destroy everything that we build and also its very hard to live alone after cuz i get independante from my parents and they cant help.. Im super confuse what i have to do .. Should i cheat or i dont know ... Guys i really dont know what to do its looks easy but its very very hard for me

I don't know what to do in my life. Confusing situation with my gf

Default profile image
Either you're in a relationship or your not. If you want to be single and date more girls, then break up with her. You sound like you want to compete with her her past relationships via cheating on her- not a good move. As they say "the grass is not always greener on the other side".You may not be ready for a committed relationship, decide what you want, be honest with yourself and her. Think how you would feel if the rolls were reversed.

I don't know what to do in my life. Confusing situation with my gf

Default profile image
I agree with skiny girl. Once a cheater always a cheater. Character and integrity goes hand in hand.i can understand that men usually want more women as compared to women who can survive with one man .From ur English I have guessed u r an Asian ( well I am an Asian). But remember locality is a gem. Once for a while just dream that u become that "ideal" kind of bf who loves and is proud of his gal and becomes that "hero" type, you will at a point really start to feel that only person u want is "she". Do not compete her past with both of urs future.u both shud be loyal to each otherŪ”let by gones be by gones.

I don't know what to do in my life. Confusing situation with my gf

Default profile image
You don't say how old you are but the 20's are years for exploring, not for making life-long commitments that you can't keep. You may not have the capability or maturity to settle down with one girl. Don't be ashamed about that. You have a lot of living to do. You seem to be restless. So you need to get out in the world and explore it. Be honest with her. You just are not ready for what she wants. Then get up the courage to begin to take care of yourself while you mature. That means supporting yourself and living alone, for starters.

I don't know what to do in my life. Confusing situation with my gf

Default profile image
I'm just going to be as blunt as possible with you. No man in his 20's is ready to commit. Of so, it very few., some think they are, but they are not. Man are not wired that way, Alot of women aren't either. If you're having urges to sleep with other women, to explore your sexual curiosities and sow your wild seeds, then obviously you're not ready for a committed relationship. It's time to end it. And when you're done having fun if you happen to bump into her again then see what happens, but why keep drawing out this relationship when it's not what you want.

This thread has expired - why not start your own?

B-1