Jaded and thankful
I'd like to thank all the men who've hurt me and in particular the last man who ghosted on me: if it wasn't for you all I could have never reached such a pinnacle of understanding!! I finally feel complete and utter disgust with anything having to do with romance or emotional attraction!! My soul is learned!! I hope to never again meet someone who I feel a romantic connection with and I am hopeful if I do, my newfound stance will do the deed for me in killing off any residual lust.
Good! Now and henceforth you're in THE perfect state of mind to get taken by complete surprise when you and whomsoever he might be bump paths out-of-the-Blue AND for him to have to actually WORK for his perks!
Next question? :-)