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Friend is ignoring me

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My friend and I have been close for over two years, we talked everyday. We were really close, we always helped each other with our problems. The past two months she has been ignoring me. I tried to contact her to see why she has been ignoring me. I asked her many different times if something was bothering her or if I done something wrong to make her mad or upset with me. She still ignored me after all of that. It really makes no sense why this is happening. What could be her reason for this, it could be a million different reasons, but how can someone just cut off all contact like that to someone that talked to for hours a day. I really thought about it and I don't think I done anything wrong at all. This has really been making me upset not knowing why this has happened. I think the best thing to do now would be to give her some space. Will she just keep ignoring me or will she at least tell me why and let me move on. Did this happen to anyone else? Any advice would help.

Friend is ignoring me

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I did the same thing to a friend of mine. All she ever did was talk about HER life andd her issues all the time. There wasn't much time for me to tell her what was going on in my life or any problems I was having in my life. My feelings just continued to snowball until I had had enough. I didn't want to blow up on her nor was I sure it was worth telling her. Did I need to ask her to care about what was going on with me? It took me about 6 mths to finally reach out to her again due to life and family issues. We just talked the other night for the first time and we were busy catching up and didn't even talk about the issue, but we will next time. I dread it but it has to be done as I need clear air to move forward. I did have guilt over leaving her hanging, wondering what she had done wrong but I just wasn't ready to make any moves and needed some space to see how I felt and evalaute the friendship more. My advice is give her some space but periodically let her know you are thinking about her and miss her. Some friends are not meant to stay in our lives, I hope this isn't the case here but if it is...you will be fine! Good luck!

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