What should I do
my girlfriend and I had a great relationship. We were together all the time. Texted and talked all the time. We always had the best times together. But now she never wants to do anything. She stays home ,mostly in bed. She has to kids,and treats them almost the same was. I do things with the kids while she stays home. This all started when her work transferred her. Then they let he go, her child support stopped coming. She is looking for work, but has had no luck. Bill are piling up,Christmas is coming. I have the means to help,but she isn't really comfortable with it. She keep everything inside, s I don't know if I should give her space...or..I don't know what to do
She maybe suffering from depression Why did the child support stop? She may need to seek some government assistance so that her children can maintain food and a roof over their heads. Maybe you can help with a few christmas gifts for the children.
Is there any chances she can file for unemployment.
I offered to get the gifts she needs,unemployment pending. I'm not sure what I should do. It seem like she wants to be left alone, and I would be ok with that but I don't want it to seem like I'm running out on her when she needs me most.
She definitely needs you now, she's feeling sorry for herself ignore it. Don't offer to get the gifts GET the GIFTS. Why would you leave her alone now? When life gets tough this is when you need your BF/friends/family the most. She may not want you to feel obligated don't ask just do it.
Some surprise flowers would be nice :)