Did something I really regret on webcam - but I like him
I have this FaceBook friend who is a guy from Japan. I met him on a pen-pal site but I've never met him in person. He's 21 and I'm 18. Well, A couple months ago, we were chatting and eventually it progressed to dirty talk, and he sent me a picture of his, you-know-what. I have to admit, I really like him. Also, as I only attracted to East Asian guys and there are none in my area, he was like my escape from the loneliness I feel within - I've never had a boyfriend or even kissed.
Well, tonight I did something I regret. After months of persuading me to show him my body, I finally gave in, because he threatened that if I didn't then he would stop talking to me. So I showed him my boobs on FaceTime. I'm not proud of it, and I feel used... I can't help feeling like this could come back to haunt me, and I don't want anybody I know to find out... I know that he'll keep asking me for more and more and I'm afraid that if I don't, then he will either stop talking to me or screenshot it and send it around. Luckily, I didn't show my face in the video. Please help! I really, really like him, but I don't like him pressuring me, and I'm afraid to do it again for fear of it coming back to me.
So he's finally blackmailed you into exposing yourself on FB, (something which you wouldn't normally do) all because he'll stop talking to you?! Basically, the best thing you can do is to stop talking to him full stop! You should step back and have a look at this 21 year old guy who you really, really like because his real character is 'shining' through his actions which in turn are affecting you to such an extent that you are becoming fearful of him and his behavior.
If you haven't shown your face then be thankful for small mercies and you really need to find yourself another East Asian guy who respects you and your values and who doesn't coerce you, and drag you down to another level.
FaceBook Friend?...I think not.
I agree with MANALONE…Someone who threatens you into exposing yourself is not a friend. Please do not give him anything else that he could use against you.