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So a little back story is needed- I am a girl. In August 2015 my long term girlfriend broke up with me and I was devastated. Went back to uni in September feeling sad but a lot better than I did feel. I went back a week early and only a couple of my friends were there. one in particular lets call her Sophie. Sophie was amazing, she was there for me and a huge help, we had always been close but not as close as we became in that week. We spent a lot of time together and got to know each other really well. She told me things about herself that she says she's never told anyone else. I did NOT see this as anything more than a friendship. So I told Sophie I had a date on monday (first day of term everyone is back). so i went for dinner with this guy and it went really well! Then i came home and got ready to go out with my friends as our celebration of being back at uni. We all got very drunk and went to a club. Me and sophie were dancing and buying drinks so both pretty out of it. She then proceeded to kiss me, a lot. It wasn't a friendly kiss it was a lot more than that. I then put it down to her being drunk and not knowing what she was doing. then a week later on another night out it happened again..i was very confused so talked to her about it. she said she didnt know what she felt and she was confused. we had another night out 2 days later and she spent the whole night next to me, holding my hand, dancing with me, we walked home and kissed. So we decided to spend more time together and

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Yes.... I think she does like you... Give her a try just don't rush things:)

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Thank you for your reply! Only just realised it only sent half of it! Relationships advice forum category advice forum category So a little back story is needed- I am a girl. In August 2015 my long term girlfriend broke up with me and I was devastated. Went back to uni in September feeling sad but a lot better than I did feel. I went back a week early and only a couple of my friends were there. one in particular lets call her Sophie. Sophie was amazing, she was there for me and a huge help, we had always been close but not as close as we became in that week. We spent a lot of time together and got to know each other really well. She told me things about herself that she says she's never told anyone else. I did NOT see this as anything more than a friendship. So I told Sophie I had a date on monday (first day of term everyone is back). so i went for dinner with this guy and it went really well! Then i came home and got ready to go out with my friends as our celebration of being back at uni. We all got very drunk and went to a club. Me and sophie were dancing and buying drinks so both pretty out of it. She then proceeded to kiss me, a lot. It wasn't a friendly kiss it was a lot more than that. I then put it down to her being drunk and not knowing what she was doing. then a week later on another night out it happened again..i was very confused so talked to her about it. she said she didnt know what she felt and she was confused. we had another night out 2 days later and she spent the whole night next to me, holding my hand, dancing with me, we walked home and kissed. So we decided to spend more time together and "see what happens". we went running every evening and spent a fair amount of time together. we held hands when we walked but we never kissed. One day I plucked up the courage to say I liked her and she said I love you. I was happy but things still weren't going anywhere. So after about 4-5 weeks of this I decided to ask what was going on exactly. she then said-she thought we had decided it would be better to just be friends, she said that she's been dating a guy at home and that we were friends. I was obviously gutted but she's my best friend so I hid it and said I thought we were more than that and i said i felt a little led on by her saying i love you and still seeing me everyday etc. We still spent lots of time together but im aware shes seeing a guy at uni now. Fast forward to NYE. Ive moved on and having fun again and quite like this guy lets call him Bob. I had a party and Bob came and obviously Sophie came. To cut a long story short(er) Sophie kissed me again a lot. even though the guy shes seeing was at the party!! she has now said her and this guy are just friends- even though i know he doesnt think that. shes spending loads of time with me again and i dont know whats going on!! I obviously really like her but i dont know whether to say anything and try and work something out or just ignore it? I just need help on the whole situation as Im so confused!!

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OK so I'm thinking "Sofie" is completely confused. Also it only seems to get physical when she's been drinking. My advice to you is this, ask her flat out what her intentions are. Tell her how you feel too. If her response is anything but I want to be with you that way or let's give it a try, then I'd back off that bit. Its not fair to you to not know. You deserve to be with someone who is willing to meet your needs. You can't make a decision about a relationship if you don't know how she really feels. Some girls think they want to try "something' with another girl but really doesn't know until it happens. You mentioned you had been seeing a guy when she kissed you at this party. If she were to tell you what you wanted to hear would you stop seeing this guy for her? If so you should tell her that and if she doesn't want that with you then like I said back off that bit. Just remain friends and don't allow her to mess with you emotions like that again. I mean kissing you. That can mess with a girls head big time. You seem very comfortable with your sexuality. Which is awesome BTW. She certainly does not.

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