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Regret for my decision

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I broke up with my girlfriend very recently, but i feel like i made the wrong decision. I broke up with her because 1.) i felt scared of the commitment that was coming because im about to graduate highschool and i'd been dating her for 7 months. 2.) Two of my best friends told me that they didnt like her and i feel like one of themm pressured me into it because he felt things would be better for the friendship if she left. I ended up having a 13 hour continuous argument with one of them about this. I want her back, but im scared with college coming up that i would end up breaking up with her again because of the long distance relationship. But i want her back so badly.

I'm also scared her family will hate me now and that will cause more issues. Please help I feel like im about to break down from the stress and pressure.

Regret for my decision

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Hi!

I don't know how long it's been since you broke up - but "very recently", you say. It's quite normal to get second thoughts and regrets after a break-up. Perhaps you just need to cool it for a while and think it through? Maybe you're just having a hard time letting go...

It puzzles me a little when you say that you want her back but you are afraid that you will end up breaking up with her again. I mean - there's always the possibility of things not working out when you get back together or when - after trying to make it work - you find out that long distance relationship didn't work for you. But when you're already afraid that you might break up with her how soon are we talking? Are you wondering that you might break up with her a week from now when you change you're mind again? Or meet someone else at college? Cause then it seems to me you should just let the girl go...only go back if you know for certain you will give it an honest try.

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