I am beginning to feel confined and lonely as well as a bit controlled. I have addressed the issue but they say that they are just being protective and they worry that something bad may happen since the world is not what it used to be.
Any advice or suggestions....?
Congrats on together for 15 years and I hope your relationship will improve
My fiance' is just changing, I have spoken to him and he says he's trying to get better about it and he's not trying to be controlling but I see no changes and I am already beginning to experience resentment. You were so dead on with that.
Anyway how are things going for you and do you have a Facebook account or some other way we can converse? You did say you were looking for a friend, am I right?
Sorry to hear things are going so well; I hope you will both be able to work things out between you, 15 years is a long time, and I'd hate to see it all go down the drain over his overbearing ways. Maybe counseling could help? If the love is still there, you can make it through anything - I believe this in my heart. Maybe you can both come up with a compromise - show him you are capable of handling yourself when going out, it may take time for change, small steps. Sorry If I'm overstepping here, I just truly care.
You sound like a nice person, and I'd be honored to be your online friend. Its doubtful I'd be able to travel anytime soon; unfortunately. My facebook has my home address and relatives on it, so I'll figure something out to chat. One I work up the courage, I'll try the chat room here.
I am patiently awaiting his recognition that I am capable of caring for myself when alone. I just hope it happens soon. It's frustrating when you feel like someone views you as extremely vulnerable or incapable of holding your own. He needs to recognize I AM NOT A VICTIM!
Well how's your weekend been? Did you do anything exciting or see a good movie?
Talk to you soon.
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