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A loner

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Hello everyone... I wont describe any problem or complain about it..the only reason I'm writing in this website is for the sole purpose of letting out what I feel. I have no person to tell my problems to, my mum is a very kind person but whenever I tell her something,I get that typical answer

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Write it down, either on paper or email to yourself. Sometimes reading what you wrote makes things a bit clearer. Then write down what you perceive as missing from your original thoughts. Your mum is your mum and probably will want to "fix it" rather than just listening. You haven't said "what you feel" so that is so nebulous. What do you want? I'll jump in and start something. Many years ago I found figuring out who I was/am extremely helpful and that was not according to what other people told me. If you have never done the Myers-Briggs personality test, I'd recommend you do that. When you get the response, take a look at each aspect and see if what you're reading rings true for you.

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PS...nothing wrong with being a "loner" - just understand "why" you think you are. It may mean you're Introverted as opposed to being Extroverted. I can only urge you to do the Myers-Briggs test and see if this brings you some clarity.

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Dear Justanothergirl, The beauty of this website is that you can talk about your problems, with some detail, and get (usually) decent feedback. If there are particular situations or problems in your life that are troubling you, then you can focus on one or two of them and make a thread here to discuss it. I think just saying you want to let out what you feel, without really saying a whole lot about it, isn't really barely scratching the surface though. You need to open up a little more than that. So if you ever feel like sharing your problem or complaining about it, I'm sure somebody here will try to give you an honest response.

This thread has expired - why not start your own?

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