I dont know what to do anymore
I'm finally with my boyfriend who I've been in love with for 6yrs. We live 45mins away from each other. So i came to his town and got a hotel room for a couple of days. Then out of no where he leaves and then texts me, i dont know why you expect anything less. What does he mean by that?
Hello! let me think how can we resolve it!
Did he want sex from you? did you refuse that?
I am thinking in some way he being cold be cause someone else has caught his eye and he doesn't want to be honest about. So he is trying to make you give him reason and excuses so that he can find a exit. I wouldn't do that. Both of you are grown and I am sure he can make it very clear to what the issue is. Instead if picking a issue. Be kind and sweet to him. But ask more questions to find out what's going on in his head.
Your description is vague, but I wish I could help since this sounds like a really odd situation to find yourself in.
So basically, you just came to visit and spend a few days with this boyfriend, and then he leaves and sends you that message?
My first thought is that maybe he was using you, and once he got what he wanted he was like, "well what did you expect?" But then I thought about it some more and, based off of personal experience, maybe he just has a lot of other stuff going on that maybe you don't realize.
Did you fight before he left, and did he seem a bit 'off' or depressed before he left?
Have you talked to him again since the other day?
I'd like to help, but it's difficult to tell what's going on here.